“Save My Pictures”

At the house I grew up in there were a number of my relatives that lived within walking distance. This included my Aunt Barb who lived just across the alley from us. Our front doors shared a line of sight and we’d often waive to each other as we would come and go. Aunt Barb...
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“Start With Why”

Simon Sinek, author of “Start With Why” and speaker of multiple “Ted Talks”, has a concept that has fascinated me since the first time I learned about it. He says, in order to be a leader you must be able to inspire, but in order to inspire, you must first know your “why”. This is...
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“Hi, I’m Brandon, and I’m an Alcoholic”

What if I woke up every single morning and told myself that to start the day? How many times would I have to repeat that to myself before it actually came true? This came up during an interview on a podcast that I host called Summerlin Advice Givers®. My guests Kristine Modzelewskii and Kim Advent shared the ideas...
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“How Can I?”

I hadn’t played flag football in at least 2 years. My friend Xavier, who we call “X”, had me come out and play with some guys we have played with throughout the years. It was just a friendly pickup game, weekend warrior type stuff, nothing serious. The problem wasn’t just that I hadn’t played in awhile...
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“Get Out of Your Head”

When attending a conference you’ll typically head to the registration table, get your lanyard, itinerary, S.W.A.G. etc. Then, you might flip through the schedule looking for classes you’d like to attend and speakers you’d like to hear. Not this one. This one, is more like MTV’s “The Real World”, so I use the term conference...
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“With a knife”

Sometimes I forget how literal children’s minds work. I was reminded of this today with my son who is 5. When his sister was about his same age nearly 6 years ago, I was just getting into authors and speakers such as Tony Robbins and Hal Elrod. You know, the motivational guys. I was really...
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“He Just Looked Down”

Growing up we all had idols, people that we liked or wanted to be like. Whether it was an athlete, movie star, Evel Knievel or whoever, we all had somebody that we wanted to be like. I have heard through most of my life, that if I want to be successful at something I need...
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“A tough lesson”

She reaches down to tighten her laces as she stands on the fresh cut grass, then gets into position. The whistle blows, signaling to start. She takes 3 steps and BOOM! The ball launches off of her foot just past the goalie’s outstretched hands and finds the back of the net and just like that,...
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“Is this what I signed up for?”

Just over 3 weeks ago I made a commitment to my family and myself. After slowly “letting myself go”, AGAIN. It was decided that I would commit for the next 7 weeks to a Crossfit challenge that would test my physical and mental limits and discipline. During this challenge I head to the Kaizen Crossfit gym, or...
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“Was that all it took?”

Artists create. They create whether someone will like what they’ve come up with or not, but in the end they create. Others, like myself, struggle through that process. Even when we think we have great ideas our attempts fall flat when it comes to execution. Although it has been challenge for me to produce my...
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